Seeking Arrangement

[willb]

Dam good advice clinical psychologist MPKid....

Originally Posted by MPkid

I would suggest putting on your favorite PL suit and splash on a liberal dose of that new cologne called Personality Disorder by MPKid and take 2 or 3 crisp Ben Franks, a half a Cialis and give that young hottie a good ol' fashion fucking!
PS: Take the Cialis....leave the condoms!

[needasianspinner]

Originally Posted by jackchat

Seeking arrangements is for mongers with personality disorders who do not want to admit that they are johns and PLs.

Drunken Dog, is that you?

[8934217892008]

Originally Posted by MPkid

Just because these girls are looking for some sort of payment doesn't necessarily make them "whores" and

Fair enough.. everyone has their own view but in my book these chicks are still whores and prostitutes. They're just picky, selective, and think highly of themselves is all.

[ggherkin]

They may indeed be sex workers, but so what. What an amazing age we live in, where online services such as SA and WYP are available to bring mostly-amateurs and semi-pros (and even full-pros) together with a market hungry for their services.

Now, if they offer poor service, that's obviously no good. But from the friends I have who have used SA and WYP, they say their hit-to-miss ratio once they've actually agreed to a date with the girl is better than 50%. And of course, once they find a good one, they repeat for a while. I think this hit-to-miss ratio is no worse than the AMP scene.

Gherk

Originally Posted by 8934217892008

Fair enough.. everyone has their own view but in my book these chicks are still whores and prostitutes. They're just picky, selective, and think highly of themselves is all.

[Obsessive]

Originally Posted by ExecutiveVIP

Only PLs who frequent strip clubs know what PL means. I did at one phase of my mongering life, and found out that the mongers with the lowest self esteem are those that frequent strip clubs and frequent strip club-related bulletin boards/forums. Based on your message and tone, you're one of those Pathetic Losers with low self-esteem.

I've never used SA, but prior to seeking arrangement and similar websites, I used to fish non-pro college students from craigslist. Those 5 or so truly legit non-pros I banged are some of the most memorable experiences in my mongering life. I probably went through some 15 who claimed to be non-pro, but weren't...they're easy to filter out.

I remember an out of town student who was attending FIDM about 8 years ago who simply needed to buy a mattress to sleep on. I bought her the mattress, borrowed a buddy's tacoma truck, delivered it to her studio apartment myself, and banged her on it that very same day. She wouldn't accept any other money the two months I kept on seeing her. I guess she didn't want to feel like she was a whore. It didn't matter to me what she was...she was a great booty call...especially on that cheap $600 Ortho mattress I got her.

Nothing wrong with mongers trying to find similar diamonds in the rough.

What ExecutiveVIP just said is closer to reality than the other rant of the guy harshly trashing SA and the guys who use it. I don't like sites like SA because they encourage women to see their bodies as something they can use to exploit men. I don't have any problem with trading cash for sex but it's not worth more than $300 for a meeting. Maybe some women are really worth it, I don't know, but like the plumbing in your house - a plumber is a plumber when you need one and some are expensive but beyond a certain range it makes no sense at all.

Fishing for the non-pros on craigslist back before it took a dive gave me some of my best experiences. I did experience a few negative meets but overall it was the closest option I have ever had to meeting up with women who didn't ask for too much and even though in all cases I paid to be with them I got a very strong sense from a lot of them that they didn't want to think of themselves as whores.

[willb]

Those were the days...I think every legit monger has a craigslist story. I remember hooking up with a Thai Chinese chick, who used her work email to reply to my email..lol

[MPkid]

I'm the first guy on this forum to say if a chick takes money to fuck she's a whore. But now I see there is a gray area. I know it's a fine line and it's NOT black and white, cut and dried so that's why I say this is kind of a gray area. The Colombian chick I have been seeing from SA is not a whore in the same sense that your average garden variety BP, MP or HX whore is. The true definition of a whore in my book has changed!! LOL. My view is...if a chick will fuck ANYONE for whatever her set price is....she's a whore. However, many of the girls on SA are looking for a part time BF that will help them financially and in turn they will fuck you but ONLY if they like you and are attracted to you. All of you that have a GF now answer this... If she asked you today for $300 to get her car fixed would you give it to her? If so...is she a whore? Don't get me wrong I'm not defending the girls on SA or bashing whores...I love them both (I just checked my account and I have 91 reviews since July 2012 and at least that many that I didn't review or were repeat performances) so as you can see I'm a whore aficionado!! I just want to go on record to say not all whores are created equal and why can't we all just get along and love thy neighbor whether she's a GND, YMMV Girl, ATF, HJ Only, MP girl, SA Sugar baby or GG KIM

[ggherkin]

Since most people in our society are prudes, I find the open honesty and flexibility of sex workers to be very refreshing. On this board, we all know monogamy is overrated , so why look down on girls who just take it one step further and say "heck, let's make money while I look hot" (and in many cases, well beyond when they look hot!).

Gherk

[Hugh G. Rexion]

SA looks like a hooker website to me. If a gal fucks you because its her job then she is a hooker but if she fucks you because she likes you she is not. In the middle are the hookers who you pay but they like you and you get the extra service and real connection with.

The other thing that I think makes them a non hooker is that there primary source of income is a real job. Any chick out there floating around selling her services without a 9 to 5 is a hooker. Students are kinda of a grey area. I think any older student 25 plus is a hooker and the young ones I would say can get away with not being called a hooker.

If they have been on SA longer than three months definitely a hooker.

I laugh at the profiles where the lady goes to great lengths to explain she is not a whore. Those ones are definitely whores.

[un camacho]

CNN's Lisa Ling showed some SA subscribers who got a connection with some girl and give them money but without sex....