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Originally Posted by asiansam
I think we can hopefully all agree that the ladies are within their rights to pick and choose their customers based on whatever criteria they see fit, whether we think it's justified or not. It's their body and their business. I've been refused service before on account of my race and I didn't die. None of you will either, even if it's happened to you more often.
That said, we can hopefully also refrain from making nasty comments about other races, even if we think it's the truth. Let's keep in mind that we have brother mongers here from many different ethnic groups (including white), and none of us appreciate that kind of talk when it's directed at our own people.
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I know a few African-American hobbyists who don't seem to have any major issues. They shave and shower before their visit, dress well, mind their manners, and act respectful when dealing with the girls and the management. The ones who have problems are the ones who have unfortunately learned everything they know about women from gangsta rap and hip-hop videos, and haven't figured out yet that certain colorful terms of endearment such as "bitch" and "ho" don't fly with most providers who aren't working the streets. There are also dumb gringos who go to other countries and can't seem to figure out the local etiquette, and wonder why some clubs and establishments become "locals only" when they show up in a T-shirt and ball cap yelling and swearing in English.
When in Rome do like the Romans. Learning what's acceptable in the culture you are dealing with goes a long way to getting your foot in the door, literally and figuratively.