Is it a Chinese thing?

[doobied]

Chinese also equate condoms with being whores. Even in their civilian life. It's more of a social thing with Chinese.

[deezguy]

Originally Posted by doobied

Chinese also equate condoms with being whores. Even in their civilian life. It's more of a social thing with Chinese.

Kind of like European women before the 1800s. Only prostitutes wore panties back then.

[Bang Qiu]

I have a Chinese wife and dated several Chinese women, as well as monger at several Chinese MPs. So maybe I can offer some insight. Chinese women all get IUDs inserted soon after the birth of their first child. At least it has been that way until recent legislation allowed a second child under certain conditions. They are, for the most part, more concerned about getting pregnant than getting an STD. STDs are not as big of a problem in China as they are in other countries. So if you have an IUD, BBFS is not as scary to them. Once they come here, or other countries, however, they soon wise up and start protecting themselves.

[deezguy]

Originally Posted by Bang Qiu

I have a Chinese wife and dated several Chinese women, as well as monger at several Chinese MPs. So maybe I can offer some insight. Chinese women all get IUDs inserted soon after the birth of their first child. At least it has been that way until recent legislation allowed a second child under certain conditions. They are, for the most part, more concerned about getting pregnant than getting an STD. STDs are not as big of a problem in China as they are in other countries. So if you have an IUD, BBFS is not as scary to them. Once they come here, or other countries, however, they soon wise up and start protecting themselves.

That parallels my experiences. Older FOB provider's who have been married were not concerned with protection. Younger providers who never married or more experienced longer resident providers would have or ask for a cover.

[praetorianmind]

Bang qiu & DeezN, that is good insight... never really thought about it.

I experienced the non condom wearing when i lived in Thailand most of the girls i dated didnt care for a condom but the working girls were always condom providers unless they were FOB issan newbies they didnt care either....Here in the states most Thai girls are very condom oriented few BBFS girls... BUT... if you become an ATF to them and share som tom then you will prob get it...