Unusual.. Please provide some insight

[mpsheki]

This is sort of unusual for this forum, but I really don't know who to ask.

It's been almost a year since I've visited a MP/escort, and that's because I've been dating a girl for almost a year. I love her very much, and she loves me. We plan to get married within a couple years.

The problem is, I miss mongering so bad. I find myself looking at reviews and ads, and I think about the providers I've had every day. Couple times, I went to a legit only parlor that teases a little. One started stroking me, but I made her stop. I really care about my girlfriend, so I can't bring myself to "go to the dark side".

The fact that sex isn't that great makes it worse. She loves it, but not me. We're not a great "fit". I'm not big, and she's pretty loose down there. I think if she were tighter, it'd be a LOT easier to accept that I'd have to be a one-woman dude, but alas, she's not. I mean, I can barely feel anything down there. And it makes me think about the providers that were so tight it made my toes curl.

I feel like I'm stuck. I love her to death, but at the same time, I'm afraid I'm not ever gonna enjoy sex the way I did before, especially since some providers in the past just rocked my world. I dunno what to think. What say you? Please provide some insight.

[Lmccj]

A couple of options teach her what you like and get her try some exercises to tighten her VJ
Secondly monger on and introduce her to one us big boys like barlyfits to fill the void when she finds out

[mpsheki]

Haha. I bought a pump. Also wanna get her some kegel balls, but don't know how to bring it up.
Man, the thoughts I have about mongering on. I'd google "Is a handjob cheating?" and all that. She once asked me if I'd do a threesome, but dunno if it was a serious question or just wondering. Perfect situation for me would be an open relationship. I've mentioned that Will Smith and Jada have an open relationship to see what she'd say, and she called them weird asses haha.

[Libertine]

Originally Posted by mpsheki

This is sort of unusual for this forum, but I really don't know who to ask.

It's been almost a year since I've visited a MP/escort, and that's because I've been dating a girl for almost a year. I love her very much, and she loves me. We plan to get married within a couple years.

The problem is, I miss mongering so bad. I find myself looking at reviews and ads, and I think about the providers I've had every day. Couple times, I went to a legit only parlor that teases a little. One started stroking me, but I made her stop. I really care about my girlfriend, so I can't bring myself to "go to the dark side".

The fact that sex isn't that great makes it worse. She loves it, but not me. We're not a great "fit". I'm not big, and she's pretty loose down there. I think if she were tighter, it'd be a LOT easier to accept that I'd have to be a one-woman dude, but alas, she's not. I mean, I can barely feel anything down there. And it makes me think about the providers that were so tight it made my toes curl.

I feel like I'm stuck. I love her to death, but at the same time, I'm afraid I'm not ever gonna enjoy sex the way I did before, especially since some providers in the past just rocked my world. I dunno what to think. What say you? Please provide some insight.

Give your girlfriend a Asa Akira Fleshlight and show her how to use it. Asa has a very tight Fleshlight pussy that wraps tightly around your hard cock. Close your eyes as she strokes your shaft with it and imagine me fucking your ATF provider


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[Hugh G. Rexion]

Try some viagra. More blow jobs. Edit that picture also reminded me.....watch some porn with her before you have sex

[Libertine]

Originally Posted by mpsheki

The fact that sex isn't that great makes it worse. She loves it, but not me. We're not a great "fit". I'm not big, and she's pretty loose down there. I think if she were tighter, it'd be a LOT easier to accept that I'd have to be a one-woman dude, but alas, she's not. I mean, I can barely feel anything down there. And it makes me think about the providers that were so tight it made my toes curl.

Now in the parking lot garage
I found a proper place
Just follow all the written rules
You'll fit into the space

Pull up to my bumper, baby
In your long white limousine
Pull up to my bumper, baby
And drive it in between

Pull up to it, don't drive through it
Back it up twice, now that fits nice

Operate around the clock
Slow it if you come in?
I've got lots of space for everyone
One for you my friend?

My lines are short, I'll fix you up
So won't you please come on
Shiny sleek machine, you wheeled
I've got to blow your horn

Pull up to my bumper, baby
In your long white limousine
Just pull up to my bumper, baby
And drive it in between

Pull up to it and don't drive through it
Back it up twice, now that fits nice
Race it, straighten it, let me lubricate it

[marsean]

Originally Posted by mpsheki

This is sort of unusual for this forum, but I really don't know who to ask.

It's been almost a year since I've visited a MP/escort, and that's because I've been dating a girl for almost a year. I love her very much, and she loves me. We plan to get married within a couple years.

The problem is, I miss mongering so bad. I find myself looking at reviews and ads, and I think about the providers I've had every day. Couple times, I went to a legit only parlor that teases a little. One started stroking me, but I made her stop. I really care about my girlfriend, so I can't bring myself to "go to the dark side".

The fact that sex isn't that great makes it worse. She loves it, but not me. We're not a great "fit". I'm not big, and she's pretty loose down there. I think if she were tighter, it'd be a LOT easier to accept that I'd have to be a one-woman dude, but alas, she's not. I mean, I can barely feel anything down there. And it makes me think about the providers that were so tight it made my toes curl.

I feel like I'm stuck. I love her to death, but at the same time, I'm afraid I'm not ever gonna enjoy sex the way I did before, especially since some providers in the past just rocked my world. I dunno what to think. What say you? Please provide some insight.

I think you can keep on trying everything you can with her to make it work out better and encourage her to exercise and eat right. Maybe if she is more physical things will tighten up down below. Beyond that over time if things just don't get better you can always monger so mr. happy wont lose his edge as long as you figure a way to keep it from her, this is what a lot of joes do in a situation like that. But if you can't live with that you should make a choice to start over with someone else who is more compatible or just suck it up and live with what ya got...good luck....when I first read your post I must have glossed over the part about thinking of getting married. If that is the case, I would discuss with her having the type of surgery that would deal with the issue, as if she is really into you she would want to please you and make you happy too...and would probably got for it. If she balked at that idea then you would know that she does not care for your feelings about that, and it would always be an issue in the relationship and reason to move on if that were true, no?

[Lector]

you can't go into marrying someone with bad sex right from the start. you need to talk to her about your needs. Maybe suggest anal?

[Swallowbiach]

I agree with Lechez. Married folks fight about money and sex. Not necessarily in that order. Sex is going to be a point of contention for the duration of the marriage. There are procedures where doc's can tighten her up. Common after child birth. But, I feel ya. My H.S. sweetheart had a vag you could drive a Mack truck into. I suspected abuse from Daddy or Brother. I broke it off b/c when I was inside her, I couldn't feel it. UGH!

[asiansam]

You know, over time, almost all pussy gets boring or at least unsatisfying. Even good pussy. You're going to face a similar issue with anyone you contemplate going the distance with. As a monger (or former monger), you're always going to have to deal with "the grass is greener" thinking, and have the temptation to withdraw an extra Benjamin (or two) whenever you're at the ATM and have some time on your hands. Some guys can be monogamous, some can't. I guess my point is, even if sex is perfect now with your GF, it won't always be, so picking the "right girl," sexually speaking, won't solve your problem. You will just have to find a solution in your own "Big Head."