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Dealing with Lack of Funds
Cheers to the guys here who never have to deal with this, but it happens to me occasionally, having to limit my mongering due to lack of funds. It sucks. It's depressing. Especially when you don't have a lot else going on in your life at the time.
How do you deal with it? I know there isn't much that can be done really. I generally space out a few key visits to spots/providers that I really enjoy and from whom I feel I basically get my money's worth. Also maybe a special trip to a budget provider or two(Shirley? Lily Yin? Or do I dare go to Coco off the 5 freeway in L.A.?? I went to see Shirley in Alhambra once, and it seemed like she was trying not to shortchange herself too much, by asking for a little more money than what I had read here). And just keep working out, maybe a little extra, to burn off the energy and turn it into something positive... and maybe meet a little hottie at the gym. And lastly, try to convince myself that mongering is a waste of money... yeah, good luck with THAT. Anyway, just a short rant/musing. Hmm, maybe I should work more and make more money....? 
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January 17th, 2015
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If I have a slow week at the shop or low cash sales...I will go to budget places, only go once instead of 2 or 3 times, get a cheap foot massage and the old standby...FREE internet porn! OH...then there's always the last option....fuck my wife! LOL
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January 17th, 2015
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AHH, is THAT what wives are for?? LOL
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#4
January 17th, 2015
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use your credit card to free up some cash. You only live once. Go to a bar you can stay all night and only spend $20-$30. Sometimes I don't buy any groceries cause there is always some freezer burned shit you can defrost and eat. I also skip my lunch so I dont spend $10 a day that will give you $50 in a week. Pay the minimum on the credit cards. The other thing I do is just work late cause it occupies time and will pay dividends in the future in the form of extra cash or time off when I want to do something. I hit up the foot places for $30 plus $20, the problem is sometimes I dont get relief there and I feel compelled to do a second hour at another place that is a sure thing and now I just spent more. How about the HX $100hhr specials? I recommend over those old hags in SGV.
Grocery shop at costco or samsclub when you can afford it cause in the long run you save up a bunch. The other source of cash is your rewards credit card I recently cash $315 bucks. If your car is paid off and new enough you can get a pink slip loan and then you have plenty of cash. Bet on Indianaplois +7 how about $300 and then you can get an hour with a top notch whore tomorrow night
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#5
January 17th, 2015
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Thanks for the EXPERT tips, Huge. Love it. I've been doing the credit card thing if an establishment accpets them(a little harder to get FS that way, but not impossible). I'm hoping things will improve again in a month or two, but if not I might have to get another credit card
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#6
January 17th, 2015
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January 18th, 2015
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I'm no expert at giving advice on finances, but for what it's worth, here's my $.02:
- I wouldn't shop at Costco, et al., unless you have a huge family to feed. You'll end up buying way more shit than you can possibly consume and throwing away the rest. I'd recommend WalMart or dollar/penny stores. If you shop carefully, you can easily eat good and healthy for less than $5/day. - Don't pin your hopes on picking up bitches at the gym. Chicks can smell the stink of desperation and pennilessness a mile away. However, Working out in itself is a superb idea. If you're able to put on some muscles, especially in the trapezius and pectoral areas, you'd be amazed how many smiles you'll get from complete strangers (mostly women, LOL). Working out will also keep your mind sharp and hopefully get you thinking about how to boost your income stream. - Always dress sharp when you go out, no matter where you're going. This will give your self confidence a boost and you may notice a more positive/receptive attitude from others, even if you're down in the dumps. - Don't settle for the lowest rung of the ladder as far as hos go. Save your pennies and go see the girl of your dreams. In fact, I would even suggest making a commitment to yourself not to self service. Don't go by Milton's “Better to reign in Hell, than to serve in Heaven.” It doesn't apply here. Go to heaven, even if less frequently. It'll do you good. It may also give you the motivation and state of mind you need to get you thinking about how you can make more $, in between the heavenly visits. - If your home is a pigsty (I'm assuming of course), clean that shit up and organize everything. You won't be able to think straight if you live in a shithole. Plus, you can't bring girls home  - Instead of wasting time watching internet porn or the crap on TV, research and find out what other people are doing to make extra income, maybe as a second job. E.g. some folks are driving for Uber. Who knows, besides making a tidy sum on the side, maybe one day you'll pick up a CEO and if you come across as a nice, competent person with a head on your shoulders, he/she might offer you a dream job. I work with CEOs and execs in my line of work all day long and I can say with confidence that, for them, finding personable, trustworthy, hard-working people for hire is tougher than shit. I'd even go so far as to say it's their biggest headache. - If you smoke or drink, this is your opportunity to better your health and your bank account situation. - Try to find a mentor. - Lastly, keep a sense of humor about you. Life's circumstances will inevitably change and before you know it, you may be looking back and laughing at these rough days. It's just a matter of time, so keep your hopes up and keep working at it. One of the reasons I love this hobby is because it's a tremendous motivator. Take me, for example. I'm in my mid 50's, not rich but not starving either. A pudgy, short, balding, below-average, immigrant chump with a thick, ugly accent. I can't change any of that. If I walked into a club, or a wedding reception or what have you, I guarantee you not one chick would even notice me or turn around to have a look (except maybe in disgust). That said, even I can have all the fun I could possibly manage with a 10+ 19-22 y.o. who would easily put all those bitchy, self-obsessed club skanks to shame by a long shot. And that's about once a week, which is all my willy can handle at my age. Funny as shit, I know, but there it is. Now if that's not enough motivation for anyone to try harder at making more $ and be more successful in their life, I don't know what is.
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#8
January 18th, 2015
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As Assaholic noted, get your act together -whether its organizing your stuff or cutting unnecessary expenses. Act like a man and stop letting your brainless-organ between your legs doing your thinking. I am getting a little older,my recycle time is slower, and my retirement funds have to last. I found a few inexpensive places where the girls really work to keep their customers happy, done the mmsn a time or two (mmsn really like that!) and then save my big bucks for visits on special occasions -where the ladies know me and treat me well -hell, they even tell me when there is a new girl in the arena and why I should go with her. I am not rich but I tip "ok". I treat them well, and get treated very well. Be a man with convictions and purpose - you claim you cannot change all that - pudgy, bald,chump - but you can certainly change your approach to woman and to life!
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#9
January 18th, 2015
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Hang out in little Korea or Saigon....
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#10
January 18th, 2015
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Wow, I set out to create a semi-amusing thread and ended up getting really really good life advice. Thanks guys, you're all definitely OK!
And BTW, at the gym I actually tend to think more in terms of slightly older women, Asian and otherwise. I like 'em, plus it's much more realistic. That isn't to say I don't sometimes get attention from the younger ones, but I'm actually not a player and don't really have the goods to back it up.... yet  Overall tho I feel like I'm happier than almost anyone I know.
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