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Pro vs Non-pro sex
So, I've been mongering for almost ten years now. Many of my experiences in this hobby are very similar to those I have read from all of you. A few years ago, I finally scored a non-pro Craigslist "Casual Encounter" hook up with a sweet lady (fine slim body with a nice little ass & tits, think Natalie Portman). She had a regular job, was in her late 20's and lived alone in her own apartment. From time to time she would email me and I would go over late at night and we'd have wonderful sex for hours. She would fall asleep and I would kiss her on the cheek, quietly get dressed and slip out her front door, locking it behind me. Not only was she rare in that she was actually a real woman on Craigslist, but she also was great in bed and really cool. Under different circumstances I could have seen myself becoming involved with her emotionally and more. After 2 or 3 years of hooking up 10 to 15 times with her, she found a significant other and I moved on. Back to purely mongering. Fast forward to this past weekend. As I am sure most of you know, Craigslist is a desolate waste ground of spammers and scammers. The odds of actually hooking up on there ever again are probably 1,000 to 1 or worse. Well, last weekend I did. Mid 30's stunningly beautiful NSA "Casual Encounter." I was trolling all the listings and sending out replies, hoping to find another lady like the one I had before. - Let me take a moment and explain why I still look for something "non-pro," even though it is so much work and very difficult to achieve on-line. One hour is just not enough time to have some nice enjoyable foreplay, oral, touching and multi-position sex. And, I like taking my time before and after. Talking a bit, warming each other up, etc. If I were a rich man I would definitely do over-night GFE escorts. - Back to this stunner from last weekend. So, she told me in her emails that she wanted to be very discreet. I was like, cool, I'm down for that, too. She named the Starbucks we would meet at to see if there was chemistry. I went there and stood in line (had not traded pics with her yet, so did not know what she looked like). We scheduled to meet there at 2pm. Waiting for my order I would glance at different ladies in line and try to figure out which one she was. We agreed once we got there we would email to each other where were sitting. I liked that, in case "she" was a 250 lb CD or something. That way I could slip out and not look back. Hmmmm, is it the pudgy Thai looking chick that keeps looking my way, as she waits to order her Frapa-whatever? And I am waiting at the pick up counter for my iced tea. Or, maybe that sorta-kinky looking goth chick with the extra piercings??? Nope, her bf just walked in. Yep, my luck, it's gotta be the overweight almost 40's looking, dumpy white lady. She gonna turn me every-which-way but loose. Well, it's a release I need, and maybe she'll have some great oral skills to make up for the looks. Nope, they all came and went (no pun). At 2:15 still no email, so I took my iced tea out to my car and figured I would check my email on my laptop, rather than my phone, just in case. Nada. Then, on a fluke I checked my spam folder. We all know that will be full from my couple of hours of searching the CE section, and all the spammers replying back. Hmmm, what's this? A craigslist email address reply in my spam. I open it...it's her! My Starbucks hook up has written twice. "I'm here. I'm in my car, should I come in?" Next one, "Are you here? I'm going to walk up to Starbucks. I am wearing a blue sun dress, if you like me, come out." I was like, right....someone playing some real funny shit on me....probably some teenage punk kids up in their apartment sending twenty guys to their local Starbucks and writing them when they see a....WAIT! I see a 30's something nice looking hottie walking up to the Starbucks in a blue sun dress. I'm still in my car. Okay, do I play into these punk teens ploy and walk up to her? I get out of my car and walk casually towards the Starbucks as she goes inside. No way this could be a chick that is on Craigslist looking for stranger sex, she's way too hot for that, I tell myself. Has to be a set-up. I sit down at a table outside and watch as she orders, picks up her drink then heads back to her car. I get up as "nonchalantly" as I can, follow about 20 feet behind her. Just before stepping off the sidewalk into the parking lot, she stops and turns... Alright, this thread is getting really long. I will finish it if you guys want me to....but my main point here is how much easier it is to just go get a nice sweet AMP girl for an hour or so. What you guys think?
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November 15th, 2013
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PART TWO. I re-read the first part and realized at least a couple of you guys will hunt me down and take my computer away until I finish the story.....sorry it is so long and takes two parts - maybe a bit cathartic or something for me. I do find it somewhat interesting to relive it this way, by writing it out. Anyway, so there was this one guy sitting at one of tables at the Starbucks, he looked at my blue sundress sweetheart, like he was expecting her, as well. Then he noticed me closing in on her as she walked by him and he looked back down at his book or computer or whatever he was doing. She stopped before stepping down off the sidewalk, and did this slow turn, like in a movie or something, time sort of stood still. We made eye contact, and I knew, this was for real. She is my CL NSA casual encounter. "Hi, I'm Brad." She smiled and looked relieved. She also looked 20's, innocent and smelled nice. You could tell she had just taken a shower and gotten dressed for the "special" occasion. We stood there a minute or so and chatted. Then decided to use my car to go to a hotel. It was natural and pretty easy. She wasn't freaked out, or weird. At the hotel I took my time and let her feel comfortable. We had sex, kissed like boyfriend & girlfriend and it was good. Now, here's the catch. After me spending a good amount of DIY time on her, she pushed me back and said I need you in me. Then she just slipped me in. BB : o If I were at an AMP I would have been like "Whoa! Let's put something on that little guy first." But, I wasn't and she was a non-pro so I thought why not. She was wanting it and it felt good. After a few minutes of some really great unprotected smooth and slippery sex, she asked, "You're healthy, right?" I told her I never have sex without a condom and I have one in my pants pocket right over there. I think that reminded her of the realities. We slipped on the cover and went back at it. Okay, here's the deal. Both this stunner and my Natalie look-alike weren't that great at sex. They both had orgasms, which is arousing for myself and them, but they didn't really do oral that great. They definitely didn't know how to tease. Play with my boys....nope. The best sex I have ever had has been with Asian providers - Korean in particular. Occasional intimacy from them, but the pros seem to give the sex and nons (sometimes) the intimacy. What's your experience been?
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#3
November 15th, 2013
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I don't remember civvies.....The Koreans have been the best pros for me as well, even if the Thais are warmer, they're not as adventurous. A Chinese or two, perhaps...
nice story, Brad, you write well.
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November 15th, 2013
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Civvies, I like that....probably a better term, for sure here on monger haven. Don't know if I write well, but I definitely wrote looooong just now, which is a sign of not writing well, actually. Thanks
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November 15th, 2013
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Whenever I am with a non-pro it reminds me of my exwife and she was terrible in bed....I want a women who knows how to finish a man off and wont stop until her job is done. I had an interesting time with a HJ girl this week...I think she had a condom in her back pocket but we didnt use it and I'm still not sure if she is a pro or a non-pro but im gonna keep seeing her until I am sure of the answer...
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November 15th, 2013
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Boo... I think you have realized the best time is with from some girl, lady, or woman, whatever, that enjoys spontaneous and exciting times just like you do. And yes it is worth the trouble... Me, after too many cheap AMPs and overpriced private sessions I have moved on to find women in their late 30s or 40s who enjoy a discrete time as much as I do... and sometimes we even have a conversation... I don't care if they are non-pros next door or pros just that they take care of me if I take care of them. None of this "are you finished yet?", "don't touch me" or "that will cost you more!".
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November 15th, 2013
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hmmm....i don't know where to start. but i can make it short. i feel you on the same way. i don't like to got to those pro mp, escort, etc that the girls fs day and night, 7days a week, and 365 days a year. and it's hard to find casual encounter nowaday, ended up they are escort post in casual encounter. i tend to go to liget mp or hj mp. and as you know them better, they will go all the way, most of the time is BB. you get my point..
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#8
November 15th, 2013
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November 15th, 2013
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So, Kewlbrad, you have had two positive experiences from CL in 10 years? How many hours of searching and how many rip-offs did you endure? This is why I have given up on CL and even Backpage. I don't want a box of chocolates half of them cream-filled, some white chocolate, some choc-covered cherries (make me puke), and maybe one or two great truffle-like pieces which are first-come first-serve and you will be very lucky to be the first. That is why I prefer the homogeneous packaging of an AMP where you know what you will get at a minimum and if you want more you are more than likely to get it and you can read these very helpful reviews if you want to be sure. (You really can't achieve sexual satisfaction in an hour? You might think about getting a real girlfriend.)
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November 15th, 2013
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Kewlbrad, glad it's paying off for you. I'm in the camp with HomoE, I've browsed the CL and SD sites, but don't want to make the investment in time and energy to sift through all the BS and find the few gems that are out there. Good story, thanks for sharing.
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