You know you are polling a very biased data base....
That said looking to yourself and your own values and what’s right for you is much more valuable than trying to justify your behavior with someone else doing it making it okay,
I don’t know if monogamy is right or wrong or an ideal, what I think I have figured out is it’s not my place to judge someone else’s choices or behaviors when it comes to most things. We are not the same. And no matter how simiilar our experiences I do not know how you feel or think. Or how your spouse or girlfriend will react should she find out. In some ways it’s more of a risk reward conversation than a right wrong.
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