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Originally Posted by Obsessive
Nothing against MPKid but it's not like I haven't been there. I was swimming in that stuff years ago and all I witnessed was good looking guys scoring like usual and liars who would claim anything to sell something to guys who could not get laid in a whore house. The whole thing is a sham that makes it seem like guys are getting results by learning "game" but it's almost a complete fabrication with only a few real successes by dudes who would otherwise not have scored. Dumb luck for them turned around and spun to sell even more scams.
I want to say again nothing against MPKid or anyone else towing the line but if the life with girls is so great with game, why the constant mongering? This road isn't cheap and dropping 2 or 3 benjamins for an hour or 2 of satisfaction makes no sense when you can (allegedly with enough skills) spend just 50 clams getting a great meal and drinks for yourself and be out meeting much better quality girls without any of the shadiness. If a guy has a girlfriend or wife then maybe it makes sense to monger for variety and avoid getting caught but if you're single there is no reason to monger unless it's hard to get women otherwise.
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I call bullshit on this. I am a fat balding guy with enough hair to be mistaken for a gorilla on my body. I don't have a super great job that I make tons of money, I drive an old 2002 Chevy car. I can chase down and get tail outside of the mongering game when I want to. It is all about being postive and happy with who you are, and for gods sake be good at something anything that you can share with a woman. I have a wicked sense of humor which gets me dates. I have also taken ballroom dancing classes--yep you meet women there to, and women like a guy that can dance even if it is done badly. If you truly want to meet women then get off your ass and go to where they are and talk to them. When I really want to that strange without mongering, I get rejected a lot, but eventually one says yes and I have a fucking great time for awhile. Will I be a Negative Nelly and dwell on all those rejections--HELL NO I will remember that sweet tang I wind up getting.
As to the better quality girls--who said those girls out there are better quality? At least the parlor gals are honest and work hard, they are no different that the women out in the real world. I have met some "better quality girls" as you put it, that are the worst kind of prostitutes, they want a house and car and not to work for it other than trading you sex and cooking and cleaning but they were not that nice a person. On the other hand I have met gals in the MP's that when you get to know them are nice and are working hard for a life they want, at least they are honest.
Now as to why a single guy would monger--its easy, guaranteed, and no commitment. Like the old saying goes you don't pay a hooker for sex you pay her to leave. I will admit I have some favorites that I see and know me, but I also mix it up. I don't have to bring them back to my place if I don't want to, worry about other bullshit that dating leads to. Now when I do get a gal who becomes my GF after awhile I take a break from mongering and am faithful. If I ever meet the right one that marries my ass I will probably quit mongering forever but in the meantime between GF's and trying to catch strange pussy out and about mongering fills the gap, and frankly it feels good so why not.
All in all take it for what it is worth, life ain't easy. Get off your ass and make what you want out of it, be that girls or money or whatever. In case you want to throw a stone back at me--my real life experience in business and love has left me heartbroken, broke and homeless, yea took a lot of hard work. But since then I have gotten a college degree, worked hard saved money paid off debt. Obsessive anything is possible if you work hard and believe in yourself--unless of course you believe you can stop a speeding bullet with your bare hand--reality does have to come into play.
Anyway peace out and remember to tell yourself in the mirror everyday until you believe it , that you are the man!