It is indeed possible for her to be a non-FS girl working at a FS shop. But it's also possible she wants to be a FS girl even though she knows you don't want her to. What's the truth of the matter? It may be that even she doesn't know what she wants. Maybe she's experimenting.
There's an old saying: "Leave the cage door open so the bird can return." If you let her do what she wants, but she doesn't respect your wishes in return, she was never yours to begin with, and you should move on.
If you are looking for a monogamous relationship (and there's nothing saying that you should or shouldn't), best to be extremely picky. If you're just looking for fun and company, you can be much less picky, and tolerate more transgressions. She, of course, can do the same with you.
Gherk
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