I agree about negotiating during the massage its a none starter for me, its a buzz kill....
Now with my regulars ,not a problem, when I started in this hobby ,i had to use my natural charm and expertise to make them comfortable, after that its all gravy lol.
As far as to have to dish more as way of a tip,I am looking for her to get into the massage ,not just go through the motions ,to have a connection with the me ... not to brag but i had many providers that enjoyed the session as much as me ,and truthfully never asked for extras they left it up to me and i never disappointed them.
And i agree that you should tip according to performance .
That's my two cents.
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