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dmichaels65 July 24th, 2014 06:42 PM

asking upfront
 
I walked into a spa where I've known the lady for a couple years. I did not have an appointment so she said come back in 30 minutes. I was heading out the door and the other monger comes out of the room pissed off. As he walks past me, she says to me "he is not happy". He looks back at me shaking his head and says " she all yours!". He leaves and she says he asked her before anything even started for extras. She said I told him I had no idea what he was talking about.
Another place I go, the gal told me a lot of times they ask her on the phone and if they do , she immediately hangs up. Both these girls play.
I don't think this is a good idea to do that but am interested in any comments on this.

earnhardt July 24th, 2014 07:11 PM

Kids will be kids. Someday they will grow up and understand the art of mongering. If they want something with out playing the game then call an escort. Maybe SG, 1DR and a few others should hold mongering 101 seminars at the next Exotics convention in Chicago.

earnhardt July 24th, 2014 07:16 PM

It seems that this is the norm now. Just read the reviews on all of the boards. The last few months the reviews have started out " I asked her if she would give me a HJ while she is massaging my back."

Bigsteve72 July 25th, 2014 02:32 AM

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Originally Posted by earnhardt (Post 73630)
It seems that this is the norm now. Just read the reviews on all of the boards. The last few months the reviews have started out " I asked her if she would give me a HJ while she is massaging my back."

Earnhardt: Let the young, inexperienced guys be the idiots that they are. They don't have the patience, nor class to wait for the reward. Asking a girl about a HJ while she's massaging your back is going to make her extremely uncomfortable. She will think the guy is LE for sure. It may turn her away from doing the deed for a while. I wonder if these guys go out on dates and ask a woman if they get a good night kiss during the salad course at dinner. When the provider is massaging your back, that's the time for flirting/ getting to know her and vice versa (listen up newbies). Maybe the guys are socially awkward? Oh well, more fun for us veterans. I need a trip to SE Asia. I missing the good lovin over there.

progolfer July 25th, 2014 12:47 PM

We all were inexperienced in the beginning. Over time you learn to read signals and react to them. I do agree that it could ruin it for the first rest of us for a short time. Recently a regular said it was slow because guys had to pay for vehicle and stickers. Whether true or not they also are reacting to less income.

earnhardt July 25th, 2014 02:41 PM

SE Asia trip
 
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Originally Posted by Bigsteve72 (Post 73639)
Earnhardt: Let the young, inexperienced guys be the idiots that they are. They don't have the patience, nor class to wait for the reward. Asking a girl about a HJ while she's massaging your back is going to make her extremely uncomfortable. She will think the guy is LE for sure. It may turn her away from doing the deed for a while. I wonder if these guys go out on dates and ask a woman if they get a good night kiss during the salad course at dinner. When the provider is massaging your back, that's the time for flirting/ getting to know her and vice versa (listen up newbies). Maybe the guys are socially awkward? Oh well, more fun for us veterans. I need a trip to SE Asia. I missing the good lovin over there.

I am ready to go. I miss my little Thai ladies. They no how to massage and service a customer.

Bigsteve72 July 25th, 2014 03:12 PM

Earnhardt: I'm taking you and Sua Gua to the Philippines with me the next time I go. I was fondly remembering a great club where the food is plentiful, the booze is always flowing, and the girls are gorgeous and sophisticated. They look like they just walked out of a photo shoot for Penthouse. I have a driver to take us around so no worries. We chip in and get him laid too. Yeah, good times.

sua gua July 25th, 2014 05:49 PM

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Originally Posted by dmichaels65 (Post 73627)
I walked into a spa where I've known the lady for a couple years. I did not have an appointment so she said come back in 30 minutes. I was heading out the door and the other monger comes out of the room pissed off. As he walks past me, she says to me "he is not happy". He looks back at me shaking his head and says " she all yours!". He leaves and she says he asked her before anything even started for extras. She said I told him I had no idea what he was talking about.
Another place I go, the gal told me a lot of times they ask her on the phone and if they do , she immediately hangs up. Both these girls play.
I don't think this is a good idea to do that but am interested in any comments on this.

My comment is typical me.....
Hes an asshole in the spas and in real life. The apple really doesn't fall far from the tree guys when it comes to relating to and with woman anywhere in any situation.

Most of us who have hung around a spa and talked to the girls and listen to them answer the phone, just knows the stupid fucking questions Mongers who call in sometime ask.
Many guys just don't have IT! You guys know!

sua gua July 25th, 2014 05:58 PM

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Originally Posted by progolfer (Post 73641)
We all were inexperienced in the beginning. Over time you learn to read signals and react to them. I do agree that it could ruin it for the first rest of us for a short time. Recently a regular said it was slow because guys had to pay for vehicle and stickers. Whether true or not they also are reacting to less income.

PG, IMHO its not just inexperienced Mongers who say this stupid shit, its vets too.
Some men just do not know how to talk or relate to a Woman/Women.
Any of us who have been around guys/male friends in bars or any and many social situations, can just tell the assholes from the guys who are popular with the other guys. You know that from the Golf course I would think.
Same with the Babes.....some guys are just very comfy and have ZERO problems with talking to women, and making them comfy with just a few lines of BS. We know how to draw the line with them.

I was with my Buddy 1drmain today for lunch, and we had a ball with the girls who were the servers today in Chinatown. Everytime they came by our table, we had them giggling for some reason, and most of it was because of the shit we said to them. It was just him or me throwing out 1 liners and the girls were smiling as much as they could...Why? Well, you figure it out...the service was great to for some reason. Hmmmm!

Daffyduck July 28th, 2014 07:43 AM

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Originally Posted by progolfer (Post 73641)
We all were inexperienced in the beginning. Over time you learn to read signals and react to them. I do agree that it could ruin it for the first rest of us for a short time. Recently a regular said it was slow because guys had to pay for vehicle and stickers. Whether true or not they also are reacting to less income.


I remember my 1st time, and I was respectful and kept my mouth shut and didn't ask for anything, I just let it happen, figured saying anything was gonna get them spooked, just seemed like common sense.


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