out of hibernation..
 

Hello Gents ,Its been a while..
I canceled my membership to MP 2 years ago ,I didn't like my interaction with some of the guys on the board,(my bad).
so I decided to stay away ,and take Drmains suggestion and seek counseling
,i am a much mellower guy now as you will see going forward lol,
So I renew my membership and here I am,Eager to see what I have missed... talking about a downer , this forum is dead!!!
So I will make it my mission to revive it but I will need help from all of you
Some of us read up on the guys from la_la land and we get envious, me included ,tried to see the difference of how they interact among each other and the conclusion I came to is ,they are having fun cause nobody calls each other out ,their not pissed off cause nobody shares info (that's why we have PM),they keep things lite and upbeat, they don't take themselves seriously ....
We all been around , we all have our own experiences ,I am sure we can have fun talking about them without (god forbid) we divulge state secrets.
So what do you say mongers .

Welcome back D. When I saw your subject I thought you were just coming out of hibernation from the Chi Town winter, but therapy that's def more serious. Yeah, there are some passionate dicks here on the forums, but regardless,
I still prefer massage therapy... forums are dead lately and maybe that's a good thing...still a decent amount of daily reviews for Chicago so they're still around here somewhere - stay warm

Hey, good to see you back, satan, and mellow. It would be good to revive this board some. I'm not holding my breath, though.

How u doing Thrasy,
Nice of you to respond...my friend this board was barren before my sabbatical
but this is like the sahara ....desert ,lol
I am not delusional to think that just posting something the Chicago mongers would come out of the woodwork and jive in ,just did it for shit and giggles
not really excepting much feed back,which is ok .
I am not a doctor but I think the state we live in contributes to our mood makes everybody moody, I always believe we are a product of our environment.
Having said that it would be nice to jump start the conversation ,I personally know at least a dozen people that used to contribute on the forum ,unless everybody croaked from too much mongering lol......whats holding u back.
If u don't like whats posted ...post something else.

I'm here back from sabbatical. it would be good to see conversation once again. Welcome back D.

I'll post a few items soon. The man is back! Maybe others will join in.

Hey RR ,
thanks for the kind words,but I have it on good authority that You are the man...good for you to join the back and forth ,this should be lite and fun,
as I said above ,no calling people out for whatever reason,
lets make this forum fun again.

I've never been the man. Like being the ghost!

So with a few gents back in the ring, I've been thinking of the ingredients that make up a perfect massage experience. Of course, there are a few different objectives, and those objectives will ultimately drive the choice of where to go. But assuming that you are looking for a more standard experience, what variables MUST be part of the experience to make it "perfect." Define perfect as that experience that has you reaching for an extra 20 or 2 because yes, it was THAT good!

For me, asking for money at any point during the session kills it for me. Since I don't request major league activities, I really don't have any patience for those who want to know how much I'll be donating today.

I agree about negotiating during the massage its a none starter for me, its a buzz kill....
Now with my regulars ,not a problem, when I started in this hobby ,i had to use my natural charm and expertise to make them comfortable, after that its all gravy lol.
As far as to have to dish more as way of a tip,I am looking for her to get into the massage ,not just go through the motions ,to have a connection with the me ... not to brag but i had many providers that enjoyed the session as much as me ,and truthfully never asked for extras they left it up to me and i never disappointed them.
And i agree that you should tip according to performance .
That's my two cents.

Perfect for me is when I can relate to the girl right away. She is usually talkative, playful and interested in giving a good massage. You can usually know within a minute or two whether the session will be good. Also if I am attracted to her, mutual touching makes it perfect.

Wow. A lot of Chicago action!

Hey Chance good of you to chime in ,how r things in La_La land...
Thanks for the underhanded compliment by the way, ,here in Chicago we can use all the help we can get when it comes to communicating ,me personally I don't get the people that are members on this site,they read the forum and they don't respond ...hey Chicago mongers wake up ,it only takes a couple minutes to post your opinion,and if u don't like the topic ...pick your own.
Thanks again Pal.

Hey guys,
Attraction is a start for making the session potentially better. Also if she talks a little and puts forth some effort in the massage that will warrant a little more. Also not being a robot and getting into it helps.

I know I don't have as many years or get out as often as you guys but I'll contribute when I can. I hope to see this board thriving.

It will come alive if everyone chips in.

New hint for success: don't be afraid to revisit a place if you haven't been there in a while. Regardless of reviews (or non-reviews), you can often make a surprise discovery! I did so recently on Halsted at Green Spa.

No new comments in almost a month...

Hello gentlemen, wow i have been off of here for almost two years and this place has died. Where have all the mongers gone. RM? Just thought i would say hi to my fellow mongers.
Time for a SEA trip.

[quote=earnhardt;93927]Hello gentlemen, wow i have been off of here for almost two years and this place has died. Where have all the mongers gone. RM? Just thought i would say hi to my fellow mongers.
Time for a SEA trip

Hello E,how you been pal,good to see you still mongering
how is Thailand, still going there ?
As you can see the back and forth on this site is non existent,been away from all sites myself for a couple of years,came back 5,6 months ago tried to infuse a little conversation....did not happen.
Truth be told i kind of miss the good old days with the Doc and Sua and a couple of others,even though we did not see eye to eye it was a blast.
hope you hang around.

Thanks diavolos. Yep still going to Thailand. Also threw in a week or two in Angeles City just for some more fun. Although many guys on here did not see eye to eye with Sua i do miss him like a brother.

Past by Lolium the other day...place was closed ,does anyone know why.. Coco own the place with her boyfriend,I knew Coco puff from way back when she worked for Connie at Sunkiss.
For an Asian she had the best natural rack out there...hear that Jrob.

Diavolos, I never got to get them out of the sweater. I never made it back for her and now she is gone. I hope someone can point me in the direction of a girl like her and please don’t tell me Michelle/Eva at Belmont as I’ve had her numerous times. Lisa at noon has huge tits but she is older and been around.
I’m only on here when I share a review. It sucks how dead this site is. Anyone else on *******? Also Earnhardt hope all is well. He was the one who told me about coco.

I’m going to punta Cana in August. Anyone know of any fun there. Staying at some new resort for a bachelor party

hey fellas how's it going ..well I've been going to Harleys for a while now used to travel a lot for work so I used to look them up on Craigslist or Backpage I'm new places that I didn't know about it's been a hard now that they shut them down this site doesn't really get too many new reviews new places. I do have my regulars that I do see here in Chicago but when I do travel it'd be nice to find a site that was kind of like therapeutic section of Backpage. Has anybody heard of any sites maybe even like the hookup section in Craigslist when I used to look up random hookups or is it all by app now just trying to figure this out but sometimes on the weekend I got some free time we're trying to hook up with some girls and wish that the casual encounters section was still up and running

I came back to this forum as well, mainly because of the demise
of Backpage, just wondering where mongers are finding new talent at?
Anyone care to list any websites for apartment girls, independents, new
spas, etc?

I travel a lot and Chi Town is one of my favorite massage spots. I prefer calling local independents than going into a store front however. It's just hard to find then now with little to no where for them to advertise. I did find one gem on here tho

I'm back from hibernation too. Tried the long term gf route for awhile. it just got to be too much for me. I guess I like my freedom too much.

Welcome back.