I've been approached and continue to be approached with the whole "marriage"/green care bullshit..I've been offered anywhere from $20,000 to $40,000 for this..I was just asked again last week..anyway, yes tsita, you are correct sir. you have a good new year's resolution...if your interested in a gal, and interested in spending time with her outside the spa for freebies, then you need to spend a little time and money with her at the spa..you need to gain their trust. and in doing so, you find out all the information about their life..not that you really care about it.. but hey they are just like us, they are humans and have been through some of the same things we have gone through.. So you can relate..so i would say continue to be sympathetic, but have a goal in mind with the girl..anyway, not sure if you were looking for advice or not, lol.. good luck