This is the begining of a thread (NOT MINE) in the LA forum. SG, you may want to comment. I believe you have a very different take.
Serious question: Are people just shy or stupid?"
I have been mongering for so many years - maybe I have lost touch with what it is like to take up the hobby for the first time. After reading these posts over the years, I have a question: Are people just shy or stupid?
In the vast majority of posts where there is no HE, people write "I wonder what the password is to get a HE" or "Maybe I will come back and she will do it next time" or "She just finished and left me with blue balls".
This is my question: WHY DON'T YOU JUST TAKE HER HAND AND PUT IT ON YOUR JUNK?
I have friends who are in the LE enforcement profession. They give me the inside scoop on these things. There is a renewed effort to put an end to our hobby. These ladies are aware of this. Most of them are afraid. You have to take their hand and put it on your junk. What is the worst that can happen? They say no? Who cares?
I've said this before: If I get shot down, I walked toward to massuse who is holding a cup of water for me. I take out a wad of cash. I make sure she sees it. Then I dig out a $10, hand it to her with a smile and say something like: "Too bad. I came prepared to tip more".
Fellow mongers, these fine ladies live for the tip. When you walk in the door, they are trying to guess how much you are going to tip them. We need to constantly remind them that there are big tips on the dark side.
Let me remind everyone that they have every right to say no. If they want to stay legit and stay with the legit wages, that is their choice and their right. (As long as they don't advertise in the erotic section or post pictures of themselves with barely nothing on. After shooting me down, one provider said to me, "Why are so many guys are asking me to do that?" I pulled up her online ad on my phone and showed her that she was wearing a bra in her picture.") Back to my point: I have proudly introduced dozens of providers to the dark side. The more providers, the better off we all are. There are lower prices, better selection, better service - good ole capitalism at work. So let's work together. Stop being a pussy and get her to touch your junk.
Your comments are appreciated.