Ruined a Non-Pro's Fantasy

[deezguy]

I hooked up online with this non-pro looking to make some extra cash to take care of financial problems. She was actually in the entertainment business. Not an actress but one of the decision-makers behind the camera. She was just going to some hard times and thought she could make some additional money.
She didn't even know what the going rate was. I told her unless you're an Asian hottie or a hot blonde beach bunny, the going rate is 140-160 an hour. She thought 200 would be good. From her pictures, this chick was an average looking ashkenazi in her 40's. Typical dark circles under the eyes, not a great-looking nose and her attitude was not very congenial. I sent her a picture of a young hot looking Asian provider I know and told her this girl is asking 140 an hour. How do you compare yourself to this girl's looks?
She messaged me back that she was forgetting the idea. I messaged back, I agree. I told her, unless she's reached the high-priced Hollywood call girl status, she's working in the trenches and making the money these girls are making. Destroyed her fantasy!💩

[secretman]

How are the T&A? If she has a decent rack and ass, and present herself a little better, she could probably clean up with rates of $100 - $120. But 40 years old? jeez...

[deezguy]

Originally Posted by secretman

How are the T&A? If she has a decent rack and ass, and present herself a little better, she could probably clean up with rates of $100 - $120. But 40 years old? jeez...

I just saw a couple of head shots. She says she is slim and petite not zaftig. That probably means there's not much in the T&A department. From some of her replies to my questions and suggestions, I wasn't really impressed with her attitude. I'm not sure if she would clean up with a poor attitude.

[secretman]

yeah, a good attitude can really make up for a lot.

[Hugh G. Rexion]

You make it sound like you are treating her like a piece of meat so I dont know why you would expect her to have a good attitude.

But I've chatted some gals where I thought $200 was definitely overpaying so I guess I can't blame you on the funds department. The other thing is if she comes to you at your place and you don't have to pay for a hotel and you get a couple hours of her undivided effort then I really dont see anything wrong with $250-300 if she has a decent body and isnt too skanky. IE she is not some black dude's GF.

[deezguy]

Originally Posted by Hugh G. Rexion

You make it sound like you are treating her like a piece of meat so I dont know why you would expect her to have a good attitude.:r
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But I've chatted some gals where I thought $200 was definitely overpaying so I guess I can't blame you on the funds department. The other thing is if she comes to you at your place and you don't have to pay for a hotel and you get a couple hours of her undivided effort then I really dont see anything wrong with $250-300 if she has a decent body and isnt too skanky. IE she is not some black dude's GF.

Actually, I was very respectful. Soon after we started our conversation, I knew this was not the business for her. I also knew that I was not going to engage in a transaction with her. Without asking her for amounts, I tried to find out what she was looking for. That's when the attitude started to show. At no point did I treat her with disrespect. I showed her that photo of the other provider and told her what that provider recieved in donations to get her to understand that what she thought she could get wasn't going to happen. i'm sure mongers who are actually looking for something would not treat her as graciously. They would look at the pictures you sent, read what she wanted for a donation and laugh in her face.
Once she saw the picture and thought about that providers donation request, she knew this sort of thing was not for her. She really thought the escort biz was more glamorous and easy than it actually is.
After she told me she was not going to pursue this idea any longer, she thanked me. She said she made a mistake and she was glad that I was the one she came in contact with.
She's from the west side and apologies to any of your mongers from the west side, I know a couple of you, some individuals from that area have this idea that they are more important than anybody else around. I lived there for 10 years and I know what it's like. She definitely had that west side attitude. Even though she may have been a bit humbled, I'm not sure if this experience has diminished her attitude. I wished her good luck and she actually said, "I don't need it. I'm already lucky."

[Hugh G. Rexion]

I'm sure you were respectful...however from her point of view you basically kicked her in the vagina when you showed her the pictures of the hot providers and told her she wasnt good looking enough for someone to pay her $200. Its not like she was asking for $400-500. U can really get a hottie to come to your house on the westside for $140-160 an hour? Pm me the info haha.

[deezguy]

Originally Posted by Hugh G. Rexion

I'm sure you were respectful...however from her point of view you basically kicked her in the vagina when you showed her the pictures of the hot providers and told her she wasnt good looking enough for someone to pay her $200. Its not like she was asking for $400-500. U can really get a hottie to come to your house on the westside for $140-160 an hour? Pm me the info haha.

😀 Reread my post. There was no discussion about outcall but 140 would be a great deal! There was a lot of email volley before the picture was actually sent, including one asking if she would like to see this picture. I PM'd to you with a long explanation.Take care, hugh!

[Obsessive]

Originally Posted by Hugh G. Rexion

I'm sure you were respectful...however from her point of view you basically kicked her in the vagina when you showed her the pictures of the hot providers and told her she wasnt good looking enough for someone to pay her $200. Its not like she was asking for $400-500. U can really get a hottie to come to your house on the westside for $140-160 an hour? Pm me the info haha.

I did this for a number of years while living in the west side. You have to do a lot of "interviews" to filter down to them but if you do those interviews by email and phone then it doesn't waste too much time. As the economy improved and craigslist dried up, this has become a lot more difficult. I've now found the range to be 150-200 and takes a lot more filtering. You also won't get much more than at-home delivery with HJ or BJ for 150, FS would need to be in the 200 range. It's really time consuming now and the attitudes are more lackluster. Wish there was a site now that filled that gap of craigslist that gets put in front of broke college age girls. It has to be just as anonymous and reach a huge audience for more general things as well, otherwise the girls who are not really pros will never stumble on it.

[asiansam]

Originally Posted by Obsessive

I did this for a number of years while living in the west side. You have to do a lot of "interviews" to filter down to them but if you do those interviews by email and phone then it doesn't waste too much time. As the economy improved and craigslist dried up, this has become a lot more difficult. I've now found the range to be 150-200 and takes a lot more filtering. You also won't get much more than at-home delivery with HJ or BJ for 150, FS would need to be in the 200 range. It's really time consuming now and the attitudes are more lackluster. Wish there was a site now that filled that gap of craigslist that gets put in front of broke college age girls. It has to be just as anonymous and reach a huge audience for more general things as well, otherwise the girls who are not really pros will never stumble on it.

O-dawg, there's SA and sites like that. I guess that's the current Craigslist-of-yore gap-filler. It's not exactly the same, I know, but the Internet is evolving. Some things are gone for good, but there's always something new. Remember when all we had was alt.sex.prostitution?