Leftover Women
 

This little video may help to explain why Asian women seem more attracted to Western men. Most of us don't subscribe to the thinking Asian culture teaches men and women. Just sign up for any Asian dating site and you will find hundreds of beautiful mid to late 20's girls throwing themselves at you. At first I always thought it was because they wanted to come here and live the American dream. After I met several girls in Asia they all said they would rather stay in their country and they just want a husband and a family. They all said they don't like the way Asian men treat women. This video may explain that it isn't so much that Asian men are bad abusive assholes it just that they view "older" women as less desirable. Since there seems to be an endless supply of young beautiful girls over there (and they are making more everyday) once a girl gets to be in her late 20's if she's not married she's considered past her expiration date. I was talking to a Chinese foot massage girl yesterday that said that exact same thing. She is 28 and said she is "old" and she is lucky she found a husband or she might never get married.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rcY4SfKUqEk

Yeah i chat them 28-35 year olds and I am super picky and only talk to the hottest ones. And these hot ones are 100X better than the mid 40s fat american chicks. But I think its still just a game to them also just some fun entertainment. That is my conclusion. Lately my first email i send says: " I am looking for a naughty open minded girl" and I get tons of responses lol some dont even read the email but others are cool with it.

I just don't understand why more American men don't look overseas for women. Who would want to marry an American or Americanized girl? There are plenty of mid to late 20's gorgeous girls in Asia that would love to meet American men, young, old, fat or ugly it doesn't matter because they are not taught to judge people from the outside like we are here. In my case that doesn't matter since according to them I look like a Chinese movie star...LOL The Chinese foot massage girl I was talking to yesterday said her mom told her NEVER marry a handsome man...."they are dangerous" While we were talking a blonde girl and her BF walked by...she was hot with big fake tits. The Chinese girl said...wow she is sexy. I said I would never date an American girl. She said why not?...American girls are sexy. I had to explain that American girls are good for sex but not good for GF. When she asked why I said they complain about everything and are never happy with what they have. She was very smart with her reply...she said "When you get everything so easily, it is hard to be thankful for what you have" She is the kind of girl you should want to marry!!

ABCs
 

Kid, you know this. FOBs are more interested in American born Asian men than ABCs or other American-born Asian women. American-born Asian women treat Asian men, both American and foreign born, like the plague. That's why AMPs work for all of us.
So, we should all set aside our complaints about hairy crotches and armpits, smelly breath from eating certain Asian foods and the inability to communicate. These leftover women love us.... and our generous tips! Where else can a 56 year old Chinese woman in Westminster have a bunch of men gunning for her kitty like X-wing pilots trying to destroy the Death Star in Star Wars.

Chinese women are super jealous, though. I just ended a friendship, that I specified to her as NSA, with a Chinese woman who was jealous because I was helping another woman out. I was not even supposed to be in the same car as the other woman because something could happen at 12 noon. The other woman was pretty nice, though. If it was 12 midnight, she may have had a point.

I have never messed with an overseas girl. But my ecperience with chinese and viet females is that they are either much worse or much better than american girls. There seems to be no middle ground. They are either lying, judgemental hypocrites or they are the most sincere giving females you can meet.

What about Filipinas?

The only experience I have had with a Filipina was my ex wife. She was and is an evil, violent POS. She was a sweet innocent 19 year old girl when we met and 2 years later she became an entitled Americanized cunt. It happened so fast because Filipinos can speak and read English so they learn the "American ways" much faster than other non-fluent FOBs. Also from my experience dealing with them on the PI dating sites they (in general) are more treacherous and quick to try to scam you for anything they can get. Now I'm pretty sure there are just as many lovely sweet PI girls that would never try these things...it's just in 49 years I personally have never met one. I have also never seen an alien and I believe they exist too. Not as sure about Unicorns, Leprechauns or Bigfoot.

I'm curious DJ. The ones that were "much worse" were they FOB or Americanized? I do agree they are one extreme or the other it's just more likely they will be the bad extreme if they are Americanized and more likely they will be the sweet extreme if they are either still in Asia or FOB....or as my stepdaughters likes to call themselves BOBA (Brought Over By Airplane) LOL
I still stand by my comment "the only thing worse than American women are Americanized women"

Dude you are Confucius! That is 100% true fact.

So, the safest thing to do is live with them in their home country. Shit, I'm dating myself with the FOB term.
I have a big slob of a neighbor who married a petite P.I. Internet bride. He gave her a prenup and said he would give her a new car every four years, pay for nursing school and allow her just to work part time. In return she must not sway from her innocent Filipina ways. Two cars and a part time job later she is just as sweet and keeps a very nice garden. She knows who puts fish sauce on her rice.

People I have talked to or know, have said they have married chinese girls.They were nice up too the time they got there perment green card,or American citizen papers,an then after turned into real monsters after.

Good post, Kid. This is about as close to a good generalization as we are going to get. It is tough to generalize or stereotype anyone by race or country of origin, but this pretty much says it. I can, however, say that in Asia, China in particular since that is where I spend most of my travel time over there, that there are plenty of "dragon ladies" over there. They are as bad as the Americanized ones here. I dated several Chinese women both there and here, and chose a wife over there based more on her personality than her looks (but she still is way hotter than any white American woman). I felt reasonably confident that she would remain her sweet self once she got over here. I was right.

I too wonder how any American man, once exposed to the charms of a great Asian woman, could ever look at American women the same again. My catharsis occurred in 2001, my first visit to China. I also like Singaporean women very much. Thais have there own special charm. Over there, they are the best whores...ever. Ever. My brother found out, however, that they are not the best wife material. Over there, Korean women are very prim and proper. They seem to be the best whores here, but I am sure there will be some debate over that. It all makes for some interesting conversation, eh?

The OP doesn't add up, and it's well summed up by the following comment on the youtube page:

I dated a Malaysian girl that was 28 (I was 45 at the time). She moved into my home after the first 2 months. The sex was great, so I was fine with it. But soon she complaining - needed to be married, she refused birth control, wanted an education, needs a car, yada yada yada. It took quite a while to get her to move out. Point was she felt a lot of pressure to get married and start kids, because she was already old and becoming less desirable. Funny thing was she worked out 5-6 times a week and had an amazing body. She put most young girls to shame.

I did not understand why there would be an endless supply of young beautiful girls in China. I thought lots of the girl went for a river ride when they were a day old. I saw a documentary (maybe 20/20) that showed how short the supply was of women in China. Men had to market themselves to find potential wives.

Cultural differences between China and the west has our heads spinning. The fact that there are 56 different ethnic groups in China (some of the differences I don't see like between Han and Tujia ethnicities) really makes things messed up. Han marry a Uyghur? Guess who's coming to dinner?

Exactly my point...the guys in China are desperate for whatever they can get due to all the abortions that happen right after an ultrasound shows its a girl, all the baby girls who are given up for adoption, or just sent for a river ride Moses style by the Chinese country bumpkins who only want a boy for their only child.

There's a huge imbalance of way more men than women under 30 years
of age, so I'm not so sure a 24 year old man wouldn't be happy to marry a 28 year old woman if he's not able to compete for the women his age or younger.

Maybe that was my first mistake... marrying a girl that was already here with a green card. If I took her out of the province and "rescued" her from her life of extreme poverty maybe there would have been a chance she would have been grateful. Instead I was the one grateful the day my divorce was finalized and I was saved from a life of extreme poverty at the hand of her ridiculous spending habits and sending money to "help" her underprivileged family.

As far as why there isn't a sellers market on Chinese pussy with the female shortage they have over there but my guess is the "desirable" Chinese girls are marrying the rich and powerful available men and the leftovers are what is left for the poor uneducated men. Rather than marry a poor guy these girls are holding out for a better class of husband and find themselves "old" and undesirable. I don't know about Chinese men but I for one would rather jack off alone than marry a fat old woman!!! LOL Now you may say 28 isn't old...but in their culture she might as well be 45.


I don't know how widespread this kidnapping of women for brides is over there but it is happening also. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EpXWIHdQ6qA

I just happened to read this article, which shows the gender imbalance at 100 female to 118 males in China. Vietnamese women are in high demand from men in farming communities of China and S. Korea. Those are really the cases of human trafficking, unlike the ones our police and the media want us to believe.
http://uk.reuters.com/article/2014/0...0HA0AY20140915

Yes, I have also heard they offer Vietnamese girls jobs in Cambodia then once they get there they force them into prostitution. They can't run away or call the cops because the cops are all in on it. Cambo girls are dark skin and they LOVE those young white skinned VN girls! Plus I posted this before from a Chinese newspaper...

i love that ad. I wish I bought my 1st wife that way

Don't believe that commie propaganda about the "One Child" policy. It might have been official policy, and some people may have got penalized (with emphasis on "some"), but half the people I know from PRC have brothers and sisters. Could that just be a coincidence? I don't think so. Maybe they or their parents were good little Hitler Youth (hong xiao bing - "Little Red Guard") during the Cultural Revolution and got a free pass. I don't know, but there are lots of families in China with more than one child.

My current girl is from China and has 3 brothers/sisters. She said the policy does not apply to Chinese-Koreans and other groups. Just the pure Chinese.

I had a Vietnamese client a few years ago. He had a wife. A year or two later he introduced me to he new wife. He returned the first one to Vietnam and brought this one back. He didn't explain what the first one did wrong, but it just seemed like business as usual for him. This new one was young, cute and looked very FOB and grateful. And pregnant.

If I ever get divorced...here is my plan. I will go to Asia, fuck many many whores until I find the perfect young GFE provider and ask if she wants to get married and come to USA. Since they know they will have to pay (going rate is $35-$40K) and since she doesn't have the money I will make this offer. Come to USA and "work" in her chosen profession for 6 months and then she can quit or do whatever she wants. I'll provide a place to live, food, clothes and spending money. The average HX provider charges $160 HHR. At 5 customers a day that would work out to $800 a day 6 days a week or about $19,000 a month plus free pussy which would save me another $1000+ a month or so. After the 6 months I could leave to Asia with $100,000 bonus walking money. Anyone see any flaws in my new retirement plan?

He's already one step ahead of you:

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_XVGZvKWmCO.../s400/pimp.jpg

Yeah, a little complication called human trafficking! Lol

It sounds a hell of alot better than my home depot retirement plan....

I think Human Trafficking involves force or coercion? I'm looking for volunteers! LOL Pimping and pandering I can see....but HT?? Oh...that's right, I forgot there has never in the history of whores and LE where someone has ever volunteered for prostitution. Just ask the OC HT task force!!

The thing is, "human trafficking" is getting to be more and more applicable to non-coercive scenarios. When a new girl is told by the MMS that giving happy endings is required if she wants to work there, and that if she doesn't want to do that, she needs to find another job, is that coercion? Depends on how well a prosecutor is able to sell that baloney in court. Who really thinks Tiffany in Orange was a bonafide human trafficker? They keep making up new laws, bending existing ones and layering on enhanced punishments to put the screws to more people for doing things that should never have been illegal to start with.

Making them give HJ or get fired could be considered coercion but even if the girl volunteers to do extras...once she is looking at a guy in full tactical SWAT gear with an assault rifle pointed at her head and then a DA saying "tell the court they forced you to do it and you can go free, get a green card and Govt. assistance they will almost all roll over.